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Gene Kelly, Amherst College, circa 1947 |
This one is to convey personal birthday greetings to the memory of the very dear person pictured above. My father, Eugene E. Kelly, Jr., who departed this mortal coil on St. Patrick’s Day Eve four years ago after a bout with cancer, would have been 93 years young on July 31, 2016. Gene loved music, he loved golf, he loved to write. I guess this blog was genetically preordained.
When
another great person, George Harrison, was dying of cancer, Paul and Ringo
went to visit him at the hospital on Staten Island in New York City
where he was being treated. After the visit, Paul and Ringo spoke to
reporters. One of the things that Paul
said was that they each held George’s hand as they spoke to him. Paul
observed that it was the first time he
could remember that he ever held George’s hand. It was so incredibly
poignant. Those boys, then men, had been through so much, for so many years, and never
had held
each others' hand. Not that men do a lot
of that, but still. It brought a tear to
my eye, and I haven’t thought about saying goodbye the same way since.
Little did I know that these words, describing a Beatles’
goodbye, a member of the greatest band ever and a force in my young and adult life, would
prophetically describe almost exactly my goodbye to the person I was closest
to in my life.
John Lennon’s death was heart-rending in many ways, most of all because it meant the
Beatles would never be again. Paul and
Ringo will never hold George’s hand again. I will never hold my father’s hand
again. So, here’s a tribute to the great
George Harrison, and the even greater Gene Kelly. Let’s sing birthday wishes up to the heavens. Let's also sing one of the
Beatles’ greatest songs, as joy-inspiring as any song ever written, with lyrics
which still resonate with deep meaning for me, and perhaps for Paul and Ringo,
too. And, please, sometime today remember to hold the
hand of someone that you love, and feel happy inside.
Happy Birthday, Dad. I
love you!
Gene At His Beloved Ballybunion |
I WANNA HOLD YOUR HAND
Songwriter/Composer;
John Lennon
Paul James McCartney
Publishers: Songs Of Universal Inc.
Oh yeah, I'll tell you something
I think you'll understand
When I'll say that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
Oh please, say to me
You'll let me be your man
And please, say to me
You'll let me hold your hand
I'll let me hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
And when I touch you I feel happy
Inside
It's such a feeling that my love
I can't hide
I can't hide
I can't hide
Yeah, you've got that something
I think you'll understand
When I'll say that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
And when I touch you I feel happy
Inside
It's such a feeling that my love
I can't hide
I can't hide
I can't hide
Yeah, you've got that something
I think you'll understand
When I'll feel that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I think you'll understand
When I'll say that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
Oh please, say to me
You'll let me be your man
And please, say to me
You'll let me hold your hand
I'll let me hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
And when I touch you I feel happy
Inside
It's such a feeling that my love
I can't hide
I can't hide
I can't hide
Yeah, you've got that something
I think you'll understand
When I'll say that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
And when I touch you I feel happy
Inside
It's such a feeling that my love
I can't hide
I can't hide
I can't hide
Yeah, you've got that something
I think you'll understand
When I'll feel that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
AMDG